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11 posts since

19 Jun 2019

a man I have known for 5 years has just told me he has bone and liver cancer and been told he has 6 months to live he wants to die alone has 2 sons that don’t care and a sister that is too busy for him . Rob has been trying to marry me for 5 years we dated for 2 days then he lets me down by backing off . He rang me after 2 years of minimal chat to tell me he is alone and will die on his own in pain what do I do am I selfish not wanting to be involved in his last few months 

1242 posts since

4 Jan 2019

Hi jaydee, i might sound cruel but is he telling the truth is he ill, if he is he can get carers in to help him, if he’s not he is being very cruel trying to get you to him,. People have been on here before saying they are dieing and the not, i apologies if he is ill but you want to find the truth first,. 

Billy 

11 posts since

19 Jun 2019

Hi billy I felt the same for a while as he has lied a lot for 5 years he has taken this too far if it’s a prank he sent me pics of medication he knows too much about it to lie . Last week I found out yet the week before he wanted to spend the rest of our lives together . I’m so torn apart it’s killing me too I feel I want to remember the oldrob not this skinny frail dying rob now I feel so cruel but yes alone due to past mistakes . 

1242 posts since

4 Jan 2019

All medical details are on net including symptoms get him to take you to his appointment, your allowed in with him, if he finds some excuse not to go that would let me know truth,. Like i said if he’s ill i apologise,. But you said it’s lied before,. Good luck. 

Billy 

11 posts since

19 Jun 2019

Hi billy goat I’m going to see him tomorrow morning as I need to try to support him . I begged him to tell me he is lying I believe he has cancer but not sure how far says grade 2?

1242 posts since

4 Jan 2019

Hi jaydee, grade 2 is treatable, hope you work something out good luck, and best wishes,.

Billy 

11 posts since

19 Jun 2019

I received this message at the bottom from him today I feel hurt and useless . I wanted to go to find proof I do hope he is not lying says has appointment on 26th for more tests ? I know this is and will be hard for you and I no you are hurting but I can’t give you any security what you need and that is what you want me to do this is the reason why I can’t do this I have nothing and no one I’m so sorry baby you won’t here from me again after today or ever see me again take care my angle ill be looking down on you xx

11 posts since

19 Jun 2019

I’m sorry for putting this on u Billy but u seem to understand me

1242 posts since

4 Jan 2019

I’d see if he will let you go with him to his appointment, if he does you can go in with him, I’m sorry he’s put you through so much if he’d not lied to you so much you could have had a good life together by the sound of things,. In some ways i hope he is not ill, but if he is OK it’s a lie again,. I’m so sorry you feel trapped either way, God bless,.

Billy 

11 posts since

19 Jun 2019

Thank you Billy .

48 posts since

24 May 2019

Hi, you are not selfish, I think this man is being selfish.  Stage 2 is treatable.  What cancer does he allegely have?

 

11 posts since

19 Jun 2019

He says he has liver and bone cancer was told he now has max of 6 months but is now planning to buy a car etc to enjoy his last months .i had the police out today as told me he was going to coast to end his life today the police want his address but I don’t know where he is and he is refusing to tell the police he is ok and is angry with me for callin then 

48 posts since

24 May 2019

Hi Jaydee, this man is bad karma for you xx 

11 posts since

19 Jun 2019

I have felt guilty that this man dies alone but he sent me a photo this morning of him now looking ill n frail I think that he assumed I wld run to him but it made me so upset that I deleted him from my phone and because I refused to go he yet again has gone off to kill him self 

11 posts since

19 Jun 2019

I’m so grateful that you guys listen to me I’m beginning to feel I am not responsible for him xx

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